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All right.
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3, 2, 1.
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Let's get it.
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Welcome back to the show.
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The show is what's your problem?
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The podcast.
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If you don't know who I am.
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I'm your host Marsh Buice on this show, we talk about the three universal problems.
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All of us face adversity, uncertainty, and complacency.
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And I want to help you develop some life skills to be able to handle the adversity, embrace uncertainty and never settle again.
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The three universal problems and those skills, you already have them within.
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The more that you've used these skills and bringing awareness to them and use them.
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The better, you're going to be able to handle the three problems in your life.
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And those skills all start with the letter C communication, curiosity, creativity, continuous learning, and action.
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And productive confrontation.
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That way.
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You'll be RFA.
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Ready for anything?
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Do you know everything?
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No.
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Will you be ready for anything?
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Absolutely.
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It just depends.
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On how well you use these skills.
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So let's talk about luck today.
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Luck is not just luck.
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This is what I titled the episode.
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It's not luck.
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John Paul Dijourn hopefully I'm saying his name, right.
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And he's the co-founder of Patron spirits and Paul Mitchell, the hair line that I know nothing of, uh, those of you who are watching the video.
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know that I don't have bad hair days.
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Every day is a bad hair day, I guess.
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Depending on how you look at it.
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Because I'm completely bald.
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But John Paul Dejourn said that you have to look at luck.
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As an energy.
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It's a form of intention.
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And so when you believe fully in something.
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The more energy you put into something.
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That energy that you put into it.
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Is going to give you a bump in the universe.
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And the universe may reward you.
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With a little extra advantage that other people don't get.
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See, this is what you're playing for every day.
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Is you're creating separation.
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You're creating an extra bump.
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That others don't get.
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This is why you look from the outside and you look at someone who's lucky.
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We've all said it and said, man, that dude just stumbles into luck.
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I mean, everything he touches, he's lucky.
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Right?
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It's because what they're doing is, is they're actually manufacturing their own luck.
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They're creating that.
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And so the more reps that they put into that over and over single-minded focus over and over again, creates that extra separation.
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And that separation puts you in position to receive.
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Good luck.
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Now he goes on to say, That luck is not just a roll of the dice.
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Luck is not just luck.
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I say.
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Because luck is composed of four different things.
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And that's what I want to talk about today.
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And those four components of luck.
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R how you live your life, how you use your energy, what you do for others.
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And what you pull in.
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And so let's unpack those quickly.
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So that way you can begin to think about an act.
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In creating your own luck.
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Isn't that a great thing?
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Isn't that something different on how you look at luck.
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That I can actually create it.
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On these four different components.
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So think about this with me.
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Number one, how you live your life.
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It is impossible to live one way and expect a different result.
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It's impossible to live in a destructive way.
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Yet you want to live in the land of milk and honey, it's not going to happen.
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So is your life.
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In alignment.
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With the person that you want to be.
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Is it in alignment?
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With the results that you want to see.
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If the answer is yes.
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Keep doing more of those things.
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If the answer is no.
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You need to construct a few activities every day.
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That puts you in alignment.
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To become that person.
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The timeframe is not up to you.
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It's about creating that separation.
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That when life tries the head fake you or tries to knock you off track or things, try to pull you down.
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Will you put your energy and your intention?
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In living your life, that's in alignment with the person that you want to become.
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That's the first part, the second component.
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Of how to create your own luck.
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Is how you use your energy.
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Think about this one for a minute.
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Your energy leaks.
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You're probably oozing.
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Energy.
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In unproductive ways.
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Now, I'm not saying that you have to be all about business all the time.
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You don't have to be all about your business.
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I'm not saying you have to be David Goggins.
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I'm not saying you have to be Mr.
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Stiffen starchy.
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You don't have to be that, but I do believe that you should earn your laziness.
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I do believe that you should get things done.
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And then.
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Have a lazy moment.
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I have a lazy hour.
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That's cool.
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There's nothing wrong with that because relaxation is part.
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Uh, the rejuvenation process, you do need some of that.
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But if you think about the energy leaks, how you use your energy, how are you using your energy every day?
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Okay.
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Are you standing around talking about people?
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Are you vegetating out on Netflix, just trying to get through all of the series of whatever it is that you're watching.
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Are you talking about going to the gym yet?
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You never do.
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Do you just mindlessly swipe your credit card because you need a little shopping therapy.
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What is it?
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So you think about these energy leaks when you really just kind of pay attention to it?
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You're like, I'm not using my energy productively.
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So if you bring your life in alignment with the person that you want to be and the results that you want to see.
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And you align your energy.
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In that area.
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Then once you check the box for the day, enjoy the rest of the day.
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However it unfolds, but not in a destructive way where you wake up the next day in a deficit.
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All right.
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So that's how you use your energy.
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So how you live your life, how you use your energy, the third component of creating luck, put yourself in the best possible position in life.
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Is what you do for others.
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Now number one, let me preface this by saying you come first, you got to take care of you.
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And I say in a productive kind of way, that way the world gets the best representation of you.
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But what are you doing for others?
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You know, it's super easy to tear somebody down.
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Are you, are you a plus in someone's life?
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Are you helping build someone up?
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The easy part is the tear them down.
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I did a podcast a couple of years back where, you know, this office building, it probably took them, I don't know, a year and a half.
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Not really on the office building.
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Planning guide, but I, you know, it probably took them a year and a half to build that off as building.
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But it took them two days to tear it down.
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The office building was old, so they just decided to tear it down.
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And dude I'm telling you I was on my way home.
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Like in two days I saw in the first day I saw him starting to tear it down by the end of the second day.
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Should do that.
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That's lab was completely clear at off.
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That's what it is in our life.
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That's what that's, what tearing people down can do.
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What takes years to build up?
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You can tear it down.
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In seconds.
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You don't want that on your hands?
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You don't want to be that kind of person.
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So, you know, I do believe if you don't have anything nice, most people talk about.
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One of the two GS.
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Growth or gossip.
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Most people, 90% of the people talk about gossip.
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They talk about others.
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It talk about how they would run the world if they were in charge.
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Whatever their world is.
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Talk about growth.
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Be a plus one in someone's life.
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And the rest of it, man, walk away from it.
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So what are you doing for others?
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Let me tell you this everybody's a bad ass at something.
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Everybody's an expert at something you have some niches that you think that, you know, It's funny.
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You won't what someone else has.
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You want their skills, their talent yet.
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You're totally not even paying attention to the skills and talents that you innately already possess focus on that.
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Somebody out there.
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Needs.
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What you have.
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What you've become.
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And who better.
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To help then the person that you once were.
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Reach back and help those people out.
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So that's what you do for others.
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Put something out there, a value.
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And then the last one is the last component.
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Of creating your luck.
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Is what you pull in.
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Now, this one made me think a little bit.
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What you pull in.
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Is dependent on what you put out.
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Whatever you put out there is what you're going to pull in.
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It's the law of attraction.
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So if you're putting out.
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Bad things.
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Trying to one up people trying to backstab them tearing people down.
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Vegetating all day long.
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Just laid up.
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Smoking drinking, watching Netflix all day, talking about going to the gym.
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Steal them from your employer, whatever.
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You're putting that out there.
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You're going to pull it back in if you want a better course of luck.
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Then put yourself in position.
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And I think what you pull in is dependent on the three other things we just talked about.
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How you live, your life is in alignment.
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With the person that you want to be and the results that you want to see.
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How you use your energy?
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Be aware of the energy leaks, earn your laziness.
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And then what you do for others.
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build people up.
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If you'll do those three things.
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The four things, just a by-product you're going to pull in.
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Good luck.
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All right.
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So CRE this is what's liberating about.
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Talking about, this is no matter where you are in your life, no matter what your situation is right now.
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You can create your own luck.
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You may not feel lucky right now, but if you really take stock and where you are.
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Today.
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Probably where you are.
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Is a culmination.
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Of.
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The four things we just talked about.
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How you live your life.
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How you use your energy?
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What'd you do for others?
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And what you pull in.
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So take stock in that.
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Draw the line in the sand.
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Don't big lip.
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It don't kick.
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the can down the road.
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You can stop it right now.
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And be, and begin to create your own good luck.
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All right.
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Good luck to you.
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Keep it simple.
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Keep it moving.
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Never settle.
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Stay tough, please, please, please share this episode with someone else.
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Someone who needs to have a little bit of luck, share it with them.
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Also, if you have not left a rating or review in sometime due to hadn't gotten any ratings or reviews in the last, I don't know.
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It's been a while.
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It's been a couple of pecan seasons.
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So if you would just take a few minutes, man, thumb a rating, thumb a review.
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What does a certain episode, or what do you get by listening to what you're.
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Problem the podcast we've been doing this, this is our eighth season.
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And we're just, we're just getting warmed up.
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All right.
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Top 3% podcasts in the world and we're on our way to the top because I believe.
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That more people need to hear this message.
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I'm just the vessel for it.
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I believe that more people.
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Need to learn how to handle the adversity, embrace uncertainty and never settle again.
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That's the three problems we all face in life and they need some help.
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Help them.
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By sharing this episode and getting the word out.
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All right.
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If I could do anything for you, I'm on all the socials DME.
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Are, you can go to marsh.
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Bicester.
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dot com.
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It's my name.com bottom, right.
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Is a mic from me to you.
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Let me know what's happening.
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What's going on in your world.
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Also, you can send me a text message through the podcast platform, go to the podcast, hit the text message, shoot me a text and I'll.
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I'll hit you back.
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All right.
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Keep it simple.
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Keep it moving.
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Never settle.
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Stay tough.
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I know we're already said that, but we're going to say it again.
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Peace.