June 23, 2024
838. Sometimes You Gotta Let Things Happen
Let's get it! In today's episode, I'm diving deep into the art of balancing effort and adaptability. Here’s what you can expect to gain from tuning in:
- Understanding the Balance: Learn why pushing hard is necessary, but knowing when to let things happen is crucial for long-term success.
- Flexibility Over Rigidity: I’ll explain why being too rigid can lead to breakdowns and how staying flexible can keep you in the game.
- Adjusting to Change: Discover the importance of adjusting your strategies as circumstances evolve and why sticking to a preconceived plan can be detrimental.
- The Value of Patience: We'll discuss how patience truly is a virtue, using examples like good ole' Uncle (Warren) Buffett’s approach to decision-making.
Gratitude and Resilience: Learn how maintaining gratitude in the face of adversity fosters creativity and prevents cynicism.
- Efficiency Over Exhaustion: Hear about the benefits of working efficiently rather than exhaustively and how this can lead to greater results without burnout.
- Preparation and Opportunity: I’ll share insights on how preparing and positioning yourself for opportunities can make all the difference when they arise.
Join me as we explore these dynamic concepts and learn how to apply them to everyday life to achieve both personal and professional growth. Don't miss it—this episode is packed with actionable advice that will empower you to tackle challenges with a fresh perspective.
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Transcript
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Sometimes, man, you got to LIH you got to let it happen.
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You got to push yourself.
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That goes without saying.
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You can't just, oh, well at, in life.
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And so you have to push yourself.
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To continue to grow.
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Yet you don't force the results.
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See people.
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Either under correct.
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Are they over-correct.
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Either they dial it back too far and don't push play it safe.
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And they say, oh, well, it is what it is.
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or They push hard.
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They try to jam it through.
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And they try to force.
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An outcome force.
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The results.
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And they, they do this.
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By forcing.
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a preconceived plan.
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Into.
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Circumstances that they're now facing.
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That were uncertain.
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That were unforeseen and because they baked this plan.
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And it looked good on paper.
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And it looked Bulletproof to them.
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They try to jam it through.
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And they become rigid.
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and the more rigid you are, the more brittle you become in the quicker, you're going to snap and break.
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Instead of what they should've done.
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Is.
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You gotta be flexible.
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You gotta be cool.
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You got to adjust the plans.
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As the circumstances change.
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See things will always go your way.
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If you always adjust for the way.
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You don't make a big deal out of it.
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You don't turn to the audience.
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which are other people think about it.
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The people you turn to.
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And explain your situation, where are they standing?
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Behind you.
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They let you take.
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The head, they were too scared, even step forward.
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Anyway.
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So the people that you're explaining your circumstances to how unfair it is, how wrong it is.
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they're standing behind you.
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And you know what they're really telling you as they nod their head to you.
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Glad it was you and not me.
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They got no nuts.
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They got no boldness.
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And you're explaining that to the unbold.
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To the no nuts crowd.
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You just got to adjust the circumstances.
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This is the paradox to it all, man, this is what faith is all about.
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Faith is stepping into uncertainty, not knowing what the outcome's going to be.
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This is what I talk about all the time, because that's the three things.
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We all face.
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Rich and famous.
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Poor busted up and broke uncertainty adversity.
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And complacency, what are you going to do?
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Oh, well it are just the plans.
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So this is the paradox to it all.
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Where you push hard.
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And then you let it happen.
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You let the results happen.
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And.
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Whatever the results are.
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You're appreciative.
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Doesn't mean, you're thankful for getting your nuts kicked in for getting run over.
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No.
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But it just means I had an opportunity.
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I competed.
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I threw my hat in the ring.
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I stepped forward.
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when everybody else was stepping back.
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Be appreciative of that.
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Be grateful for that.
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Not the results.
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Be grateful.
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That you were a worthy competitor.
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See, appreciative, being grateful.
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This is what.
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Keeps you curious.
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This is what cultivates your creativity.
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Because when you're not grateful.
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You're cynical.
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You're not curious.
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You're fearful and you can't be fearful and curious all at the same time ain't gonna happen.
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This is like the craziest thing in the world.
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Isn't it?
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It's crazy.
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To push hard.
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And let the results be what they will be.
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Now here's the twist for you?
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Defend.
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Well, wait a minute.
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I just go to, oh, well, no.
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No, here's the twist.
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The results.
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You don't take personal.
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It's not.
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a mark of who you are.
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It's where you are.
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In the process called life.
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So you push hard.
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You push to influence.
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You bring your best possible work.
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You put yourself in the best possible position that, you know, how.
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When you rejected.
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When you get punched.
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You find your best?
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Countermove.
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And you go back at it one more time.
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You have a one more mentality.
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And you let it happen.
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You let it come to you.
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This is why.
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The saying.
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That so many of you.
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Tweet.
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Yet you don't live by.
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is, "Patience is a virtue." It really is.
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Uh, virtue.
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You think, oh, WB.
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Is maniacal and running around.
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Trying to find.
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All right, move out of the way.
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I got to get a stock.
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Warren buffet don't do that.
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He's a billionaire.
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Many times over.
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Because he's patient.
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He doesn't.
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Jump in the pool when everybody else is jumping in the pool.
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As a matter of fact, he's a contrarian.
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He does opposite of what the masses are doing.
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So he works.
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While he waits.
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It's not that he just sits on the couch and waits.
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He's working.
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He's tinkering.
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He studying.
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And he puts himself in the position.
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So when the position opens up, He jumps on it.
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And he's also willing.
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To walk away.
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He's willing to.
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Let it happen.
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Let it come to him.
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And that's what I want to stress to you, man.
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There are some things in life.
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That you just got to let come to you.
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But you don't let it come to you by just sitting there doing nothing.
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Reading the next book.
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No.
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You analyze, you keep studying.
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You act, you put yourself in position.
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And you keep watching.
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So when that situation opens up, You jump all over.
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It's micro effort.
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Macro patience.
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You do what you can do today.
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Lay the brick, do what you can do today.
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With maximum.
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Efficiencies.
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Here's the thing.
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That I've been working on.
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Uh, because I've just been like, Bundled up frustrated.
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Is.
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Being efficient.
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In the time that I have.
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I could look at the time and say, it's working against me, or I could say, what are the minimal things that bring me.
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Maximum efficiency.
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That bear.
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Exponential results.
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That's what I'm.
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That's what I'm focused on every day.
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And every day, bro.
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I can't tell you.
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How much more efficient.
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My life.
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Has become because I'm in the creation business.
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I'm not trying to compete with the next man.
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Get out of that competitive realm.
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And just create.
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The maximum of efficiencies.
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Put yourself in the best possible position.
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You don't have to work long and hard.
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You have to work.
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Hard.
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About being efficient.
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And the efficiencies is what's going to create.
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The results.
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Work in 25 hours a day.
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Nine days a week.
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It's not going to make you a success.
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You're going to die and leave it behind.
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And the wife that you leave it behind to.
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She's going to use that.
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To buy a new man that's 15 years younger.
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They've ravages her in the bedroom.
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Because you were too fucking tired.
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To bring the thunder.
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Don't do that, man.
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Maximum efficiencies.
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I'm not about to work hard.
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People tell me that all the time don't work hard.
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I said, shit.
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No, I'm not.
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that ain't gonna happen.
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I don't work hard.
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I work efficient.
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So you gotta be patient.
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And you got to work while you wait.
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You let the results come to you.
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because better is gooder than good.
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What you want right now is good.
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But there's better.
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And then there's even best.
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Right behind that.
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But you gotta be patient.
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And you got to realize that you didn't miss out.
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She's not.
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Quite ready yet.
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And the ready.
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What you think that you want, there's something better for you.
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And that's what God is telling you.
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That's what the universe is telling you.
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There's something better, man.
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But you won't get better.
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If you're not grateful, if you're not appreciative, if you don't look at it , from a creative.
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Standpoint curious standpoint, instead of the cynical competitive I've lost my chance.
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No.
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Hm.
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You let the results be what they're going to be.
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You take that result.
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You break it down.
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You analyze it.
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You put no negative narrative to it.
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Turn to the crowd.
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Don't beat yourself up.
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Push yourself.
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Talk a less shit to yourself, but don't talk shit about yourself.
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There's a big difference.
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So no negative narrative.
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You break it down.
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Put yourself in the best possible position.
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Counter it.
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Re counter it one more.
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And whatever the results are or what the results are.
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When that success is going to come.
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You let it happen.
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You let it come to you.
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Come home, baby.
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I'm ready.
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I'm ready.
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You just show yourself approved.
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You just be ready.
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So you break it down, whatever the results are, you break it down, you analyze it.
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You make the necessary adjustments.
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You shut the fuck up.
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And stop putting this negative narrative to it.
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Let me go back in.
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Again, Chance favors the bold baby got to be bold.
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But not reckless.
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Not careless.
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All right.
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Let's get it.
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Keep it simple.
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Keep it moving.
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Never settle.
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Stay tough.
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Peace.
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Sometimes, man, you got to LIH you got to let it happen.
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You got to push yourself.
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That goes without saying.
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You can't just, oh, well at, in life.
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And so you have to push yourself.
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To continue to grow.
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Yet you don't force the results.
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See people.
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Either under correct.
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Are they over-correct.
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Either they dial it back too far and don't push play it safe.
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And they say, oh, well, it is what it is.
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or They push hard.
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They try to jam it through.
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And they try to force.
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An outcome force.
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The results.
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And they, they do this.
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By forcing.
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a preconceived plan.
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Into.
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Circumstances that they're now facing.
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That were uncertain.
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That were unforeseen and because they baked this plan.
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And it looked good on paper.
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And it looked Bulletproof to them.
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They try to jam it through.
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And they become rigid.
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and the more rigid you are, the more brittle you become in the quicker, you're going to snap and break.
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Instead of what they should've done.
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Is.
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You gotta be flexible.
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You gotta be cool.
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You got to adjust the plans.
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As the circumstances change.
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See things will always go your way.
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If you always adjust for the way.
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You don't make a big deal out of it.
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You don't turn to the audience.
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which are other people think about it.
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The people you turn to.
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And explain your situation, where are they standing?
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Behind you.
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They let you take.
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The head, they were too scared, even step forward.
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Anyway.
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So the people that you're explaining your circumstances to how unfair it is, how wrong it is.
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they're standing behind you.
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And you know what they're really telling you as they nod their head to you.
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Glad it was you and not me.
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They got no nuts.
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They got no boldness.
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And you're explaining that to the unbold.
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To the no nuts crowd.
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You just got to adjust the circumstances.
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This is the paradox to it all, man, this is what faith is all about.
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Faith is stepping into uncertainty, not knowing what the outcome's going to be.
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This is what I talk about all the time, because that's the three things.
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We all face.
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Rich and famous.
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Poor busted up and broke uncertainty adversity.
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And complacency, what are you going to do?
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Oh, well it are just the plans.
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So this is the paradox to it all.
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Where you push hard.
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And then you let it happen.
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You let the results happen.
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And.
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Whatever the results are.
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You're appreciative.
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Doesn't mean, you're thankful for getting your nuts kicked in for getting run over.
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No.
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But it just means I had an opportunity.
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I competed.
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I threw my hat in the ring.
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I stepped forward.
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when everybody else was stepping back.
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Be appreciative of that.
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Be grateful for that.
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Not the results.
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Be grateful.
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That you were a worthy competitor.
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See, appreciative, being grateful.
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This is what.
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Keeps you curious.
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This is what cultivates your creativity.
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Because when you're not grateful.
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You're cynical.
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You're not curious.
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You're fearful and you can't be fearful and curious all at the same time ain't gonna happen.
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This is like the craziest thing in the world.
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Isn't it?
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It's crazy.
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To push hard.
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And let the results be what they will be.
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Now here's the twist for you?
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Defend.
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Well, wait a minute.
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I just go to, oh, well, no.
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No, here's the twist.
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The results.
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You don't take personal.
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It's not.
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a mark of who you are.
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It's where you are.
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In the process called life.
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So you push hard.
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You push to influence.
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You bring your best possible work.
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You put yourself in the best possible position that, you know, how.
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When you rejected.
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When you get punched.
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You find your best?
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Countermove.
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And you go back at it one more time.
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You have a one more mentality.
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And you let it happen.
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You let it come to you.
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This is why.
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The saying.
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That so many of you.
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Tweet.
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Yet you don't live by.
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is, "Patience is a virtue." It really is.
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Uh, virtue.
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You think, oh, WB.
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Is maniacal and running around.
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Trying to find.
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All right, move out of the way.
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I got to get a stock.
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Warren buffet don't do that.
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He's a billionaire.
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Many times over.
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Because he's patient.
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He doesn't.
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Jump in the pool when everybody else is jumping in the pool.
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As a matter of fact, he's a contrarian.
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He does opposite of what the masses are doing.
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So he works.
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While he waits.
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It's not that he just sits on the couch and waits.
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He's working.
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He's tinkering.
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He studying.
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And he puts himself in the position.
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So when the position opens up, He jumps on it.
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And he's also willing.
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To walk away.
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He's willing to.
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Let it happen.
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Let it come to him.
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And that's what I want to stress to you, man.
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There are some things in life.
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That you just got to let come to you.
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But you don't let it come to you by just sitting there doing nothing.
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Reading the next book.
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No.
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You analyze, you keep studying.
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You act, you put yourself in position.
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And you keep watching.
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So when that situation opens up, You jump all over.
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It's micro effort.
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Macro patience.
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You do what you can do today.
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Lay the brick, do what you can do today.
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With maximum.
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Efficiencies.
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Here's the thing.
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That I've been working on.
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Uh, because I've just been like, Bundled up frustrated.
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Is.
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Being efficient.
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In the time that I have.
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I could look at the time and say, it's working against me, or I could say, what are the minimal things that bring me.
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Maximum efficiency.
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That bear.
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Exponential results.
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That's what I'm.
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That's what I'm focused on every day.
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And every day, bro.
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I can't tell you.
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How much more efficient.
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My life.
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Has become because I'm in the creation business.
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I'm not trying to compete with the next man.
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Get out of that competitive realm.
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And just create.
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The maximum of efficiencies.
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Put yourself in the best possible position.
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You don't have to work long and hard.
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You have to work.
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Hard.
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About being efficient.
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And the efficiencies is what's going to create.
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The results.
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Work in 25 hours a day.
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Nine days a week.
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It's not going to make you a success.
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You're going to die and leave it behind.
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And the wife that you leave it behind to.
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She's going to use that.
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To buy a new man that's 15 years younger.
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They've ravages her in the bedroom.
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Because you were too fucking tired.
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To bring the thunder.
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Don't do that, man.
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Maximum efficiencies.
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I'm not about to work hard.
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People tell me that all the time don't work hard.
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I said, shit.
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No, I'm not.
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that ain't gonna happen.
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I don't work hard.
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I work efficient.
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So you gotta be patient.
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And you got to work while you wait.
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You let the results come to you.
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because better is gooder than good.
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What you want right now is good.
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But there's better.
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And then there's even best.
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Right behind that.
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But you gotta be patient.
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And you got to realize that you didn't miss out.
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She's not.
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Quite ready yet.
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And the ready.
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What you think that you want, there's something better for you.
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And that's what God is telling you.
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That's what the universe is telling you.
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There's something better, man.
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But you won't get better.
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If you're not grateful, if you're not appreciative, if you don't look at it , from a creative.
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Standpoint curious standpoint, instead of the cynical competitive I've lost my chance.
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No.
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Hm.
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You let the results be what they're going to be.
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You take that result.
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You break it down.
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You analyze it.
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You put no negative narrative to it.
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Turn to the crowd.
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Don't beat yourself up.
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Push yourself.
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Talk a less shit to yourself, but don't talk shit about yourself.
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There's a big difference.
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So no negative narrative.
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You break it down.
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Put yourself in the best possible position.
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Counter it.
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Re counter it one more.
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And whatever the results are or what the results are.
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When that success is going to come.
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You let it happen.
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You let it come to you.
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Come home, baby.
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I'm ready.
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I'm ready.
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You just show yourself approved.
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You just be ready.
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So you break it down, whatever the results are, you break it down, you analyze it.
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You make the necessary adjustments.
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You shut the fuck up.
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And stop putting this negative narrative to it.
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Let me go back in.
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Again, Chance favors the bold baby got to be bold.
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But not reckless.
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Not careless.
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All right.
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Let's get it.
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Keep it simple.
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Keep it moving.
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Never settle.
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Stay tough.
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Peace.